{"id":6043,"date":"2021-07-06T19:06:48","date_gmt":"2021-07-06T17:06:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.lichtjesaandehaven.nl\/?p=6043"},"modified":"2021-07-06T19:06:48","modified_gmt":"2021-07-06T17:06:48","slug":"nico-in-the-house","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.lichtjesaandehaven.nl\/?p=6043","title":{"rendered":"Nico in the house"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"6043\" class=\"elementor elementor-6043\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-86e691a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"86e691a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-93d1232\" data-id=\"93d1232\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6bdbb6f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6bdbb6f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Nico is een man waar je U tegen zegt.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Hij is knap, gespierd, grappig. Zo gestructureerd dat ik er jaloers van word. En met een carri\u00e8re waar de meeste mensen van dromen.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Iedereen die langer kent, zegt; \u201cNico is z\u00f3 veranderd. Vroeger sprak hij niet over zijn gevoel.\u201d<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Ik ken Nico niet anders.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">We luidden het nieuwe jaar samen in. Tijdens het diner hield hij een speech, waarbij hij de genodigden persoonlijk bedankte voor het afgelopen jaar en wat iedereen voor hem betekent had in 2020. Ik pikte een traantje weg. Deze man met zijn overweldigende spiermassa had de kracht om klein te zijn.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Diezelfde avond nam ik afscheid van een aantal vooroordelen waarvan ik geeneens wist dat ik ze had. In dit mooie huis met deze mooie mensen. We proostten op onze ontmoeting eerder dat jaar.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Nico brengt spiritualiteit, en het doorbreken van patronen, op plekken waar dit misschien wel het meest nodig is; in de gewone wereld. Zennn-zitten-te-zijn op een yogamatje is makkelijk. Wat Nico doet is grootster; hij schijnt zijn licht middenin de maatschappij, in een driedelig pak, tussen het geld, tussen directieleden, in de wereld waar ik juist uitgestapt ben. Nico kan zich prima staande houden in deze wereld. Hij geniet en hij l\u00e9\u00e9ft het.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">In energie is hij, samen met zijn verloofde Chantal, \u00e9\u00e9n van de drijvende krachten achter Lichtjes aan de Haven. Als een lopend vuurtje enthousiasmeren zij mensen om hun eigen licht aan te komen steken in Schoonhoven. Dankzij hen komt ongeveer de helft van onze deelnemers uit regio Eindhoven.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Aankomende vrijdag is Nico zelf onderdeel van het mooie vuur. Hij neemt, naast Floor en mij, plaats op de eervolle plek van begeleider. Met z\u2019n drieeen gaan we de Mannen-Truffelceremonie leiden. Zijn aktetas gaat hij verruilen voor zijn zelfgemaakte drum. Hij zal zijn klank laten horen. Hij gaat mannen meenemen naar de plek waar hij zelf regelmatig te vinden is; naar het midden. Op de plek waar gevoel, verstand, intu\u00eftie, verleden en toekomst samenkomt.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">En ik? Ik ga trots zijn. Op deze mannen die komen deelnemen aan de truffelceremonie. Maar misschien meer nog meer op de sjamaan naast me. Ambassadeur, manager, mens, vader, vriend. Nico; een man waar je U tegen zegt.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: Calibri; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c64469b elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"c64469b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nico is een man waar je U tegen zegt. 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